10 Situs Menarik untuk Membantu Kesembuhan Gay

Apa itu reorientasi? Apa itu repatriasi? Bagaimana menjadi straight (kembali)? Untuk mencari informasi tentang itu semua, sungguh, bukan hal yang mudah di Indonesia. Bahkan dibanding dengan informasi mengenai homoseksual, informasi yang mengkhususkan diri untuk (kembali) menjadi straight bisa dibilang tidak ada. Yang ada barangkali hanya sejumput tanya jawab dalam rubrik konsultasi seksologi/psikologi dan itu pun mendapatkannya seperti mencari jarum dalam tumpukan jerami.

Sebagai alternatif, apa daya, situs asing tetap menjadi pilihan utama. Meski dituduh sebagai negara sekuler, namun situs-situs asing tersebut tetap menawarkan semangat keberagamaan untuk kembali menjadi straight. Mereka bahkan menjalin kerjasama dengan majelis gereja untuk program pengobatan tersebut. Bagi Anda yang beragama Islam, tentu tidak menjadi soal melongok situs-situs tersebut sekadar sebagai pelajaran.

Sebanyak 10 situs yang layak Anda kunjungi antara lain:

1. www.newdirection.ca

Whether you have some general questions, experience same-sex attraction yourself, or just want to know how to relate better to those who do, we hope you will find this site encouraging and helpful.

2. www.freetobeme.com

Offering Christian support to men and women choosing to leave homosexuality, and equipping the church to minister effectively and compassionately.

3. www.bridges-across.org

Bridges-Across is a cyberspace initiative providing models and resources for building respectful relationships among those who disagree about moral issues surrounding homosexuality, bisexuality and gender variance.

4. www.becomingreal.org

Becoming the person God intends you to be

5. www.exgay.org

Ex-gays are men and women who no longer self-identify as homosexual or lesbian in their behavior or lifestyle, transgenders who have undergone reversal surgery, and questioning gays who seek the right to change their sexual orientation.

Situs ini mempunyai jaringan exgay di sejumlah negara atau yang disebut Gay Change Site Ring, misalnya saja www.exgay.org.uk, www.exgayman.org, dll.

6. www.exodusnorthamerica.org

Proclaiming, educating and impacting the world with the biblical truth that freedom from homosexuality is possible through a relationship with Jesus Christ

7. www.peoplecanchange.com

Men who have “come out” of homosexuality showing others the way. For those who seek similar life change, we share our experience and offer our support. Our motivation for sharing our stories and experience is simply to benefit those who now are where we were not that long ago, facing the pain and hopelessness of having homosexual desires we could not understand, did not choose, could not control — and did not want.

8. www.gaytostraight.org dibangun oleh International Healing Foundation/IHF.

We believe that:
No one born homosexual
No one chooses to have same-sex attractions
Anyone can choose to change
What was learned can be unlearned
It’s not gay, nor bad, it’s SSAD
(Same-Sex Attachment Disorder)

9. www.narth.com
National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality/NARTH

NARTH’s primary goal is to make effective psychological therapy available to all homosexual men and women who seek change.

10. www.straight.org

New Insights on Sexual Identity
* Homosexuality is not inborn
* Homosexuality is not benign
* Homosexuality is not unchangeable

Tentu saja masih banyak situs penyembuhan/reorientasi lain yang “gentayangan” di dunia maya. Jika Anda menemukan yang menarik, jangan sungkan berbagi dengan kami!